Teaching a 5-year old fun, basic sports skills?

Howdy all,

My son is 5, and is a wide-open energy dynamo. He also has a knack for tactical skills. I taught him how to throw a 6’ spinning rod when he was 3 years old by giving him a very basic order of operations (a tactic), and he’d follow it perfectly. We routinely get people fishing near our boat clap for him lol. For he and I, it’s old news, but he eats up their attention.

So, here’s the deal. He’ll make for a fine little sportsman. We tried to enroll him in a soccer league here in town but we didn’t know about it until way too late.

For this summer, it’s up to me to teach him. The problem is, Daddy is a dunce. My father wasn’t a ball player (too many ponds to fish in to have time for ball). I literally bought my first baseball glove TODAY, so at least they are intuitive enough. I remember a few basic things (dribbling a basketball like a white dude, dribbing the soccer ball like the fat kid I was, throwing a football in a wussy fashion, and leaving tennis to the skinny rich kids). :sunglasses:

So here’s my question. What fun little games do you folks give your kids to do that will develop good sports skills?

For baseball, I plan on strapping a 5-gallon bucket to a tree, and painting a spot on the ground as “pitcher’s mound”, and let him practice on getting the balls in the bucket.

For soccer, I think setting up some cones in the back yard to practice dribbling the ball around them with his feet.

For weightlifting, when his age is appropriate, I can handle that. I lifted weights in high school (“advanced PE”) for three years.

For golf, Grandpa gets called, and Daddy sneaks off to the Tailrace canal.

But what other things do y’all do for very young kids to keep it fun, but also begin to develop useful skills?

Google practice exercises or drills in whatever sport you are interested in. There are tons of sites that show you how to develop skills in specific sports. I used to coach flag football and the first year I did it, I wasn’t sure what to do. I found tons of drills, exercises, etc.

“Apathy is the Glove into Which Evil Slips It’s Hand”.

Your already doing the best thing you can do…
Keeping it fun for him and spending the time with him!

Throwing a ball in a bucket gets boring quick, throwing a ball to dad then dad throwing it back is the best. He learns to throw not aim, also learning to catch when thrown back.

Tons of instructional info on web.

MooreFun Out!
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Having a catch with you will not only teach your son how to throw and to catch, it will provide him a lifetime of memories!! I still remember having a catch with my dad on the front lawn of our home and that was probably 45 yrs. ago!
For throwing accuracy?.I guess a bucket is ok, but when we were young, it was taping out a ‘strike zone’ on the garage door or on a solid wall and throwing at that square from different distances, then playing wiffle ball using that strike zone for determining balls/strikes.
Have fun and enjoy yourselves, it’s worth the time!!!

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Throwing a ball in a bucket gets boring quick, throwing a ball to dad then dad throwing it back is the best.


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Absolutely!

The bucket idea was actually more for him to do when I’m at work and he’s at home with Mom (we homeschool). My plan was for my wife to sit and rest on the porch and let my son throw the ball into the bucket, and get some sort of fun reward for every bucket he makes (kinda like getting tickets at the arcade to trade in for the novelty toys).

You’re probably right though, may get boring quick for him. He has a very inquisitive and intelligent mind that gets bored quite quickly.

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He learns to throw not aim

This is a good point that I might have missed if you hadn’t said it. I am not all that accomplished as a thrower, I inevitably make my arm sore if I’m tossing the ball a long way, just because I never learned the skill.

I can sling a rod all day and knock dragon flies off of lily pads, but I couldn’t pitch a ball across a home plate the size of a cadillac.

… The Cross of Christ is the anvil upon which the hammer of evil wore itself out.

We joked about it tonight leaving church. I told the kids not to throw the dodge ball through the window. It took us too long to replace it when we were little. :smiley:

We used to take the metal lid to a big trash can and prop it up against the fireplace wall at our church.(Window on each side of the fireplace) We would use the lid for a strike zone. It would make a loud slam and no doubt that it was a strike if you hit it. Fun days. All the boys in the neighborhood would gather up on Sunday afternoon to play baseball.

I didn’t think it was that long ago until I started thinking about how old we were then. Wow, time is passing faster than we can keep up. My son and I play catch in the yard. He loves it. Any time with father and son, doesn’t matter what it is, is time well spent.

18’ Hewes Bayfisher

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My son is 5, and is a wide-open energy dynamo. He also has a knack for tactical skills..... snipped.....But what other things do y'all do for very young kids to keep it fun, but also begin to develop useful skills?

Enroll him in a martial arts class. You should be able to find a judo, jujitsu or karate class that will take students his age. Join with him to keep the bond. Never too early to start and it will build discipline, self control and self confidence. My father enrolled me in a YMCA judo class when I was 6 and I kept it up in one form or another until adulthood. I did the same with my son. Being able to take care of yourself is a lot more important than being able to kick a soccer ball, and a lot more fun IMO. My son’s opinion too. He is 25, can’t play soccer, but he can catch fish, handle a boat and almost kick my butt. Almost. :smiley: It’s a very useful skill. To be able to walk in confidence, not be bullied in the school yard, and to have the self discipline and control not to bully others or to use more force than necessary to control a situation. A good martial arts school will teach him all that.

Just remember KISMIF. Keep it simple, make it fun. Work up from there.

Capt. Larry Teuton
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I agree with Cracker Larry,I have my 2 boys in Martial Arts,one is 10 and the other is 6,they both like it very well.

Double D.

While married to wife #2(on #4 now, keep saying it’s the last time:wink:), she had a 10 yr. old son who wanted to play baseball. The kid had barely seen a baseball, much less played.(mom was WAY overprotective & controlling, which I found out to late) Anyways, First thing I did was buy a couple of balls and gloves for us, then enroll him on a team. We would head out to the yard and play catch for an hour or two about every day. And if we weren’t fishing, as long as he wanted to on the weekends. I also volunteered as a practice coach on the team.
Long story short, when we started, he threw a ball like my mother and was afraid to try & catch the ball. By the end of the season, he was catching my fast ball(and I was throwing it hard) every time, was the star first base & won an award for most improved player.
I hope he kept it up & his screwed up mother didn’t F it up for him.

Playing with your children is one of the best things you can do. Whether it’s ball, fishing, or a tea party with your daughter.

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Dear Matt…Your heart is in the right place, and you have plenty of time to interact with your son, so from there it’s all about setting expectations. I admire the fact that you admit your inexperience with organized team sports. What you are expressing an interest in is teaching the proper fundamentals of basic sports movements, and that is exactly where you need to start. I’m not sure where you live, but most communities have youth recreation depts. that organize team sports for the various age groups. Your son would be eligible for T-ball and Micro Soccer at 5 here in Mt. Pleasant. Those are excellent introductions to organized youth team sports. There is no emphasis on winning at this age, only fun and the team concept. It will introduce him to other young ballplayers, and he will discover the joy of competition. Having coached at all youth levels up to and including high school, I understand the importance of developing talent through teaching fundamentals, and finding resources to improve the process. There are clinics and camps, YOU TUBE videos, books,CD’s, web sites, blogs, etc., etc. Commit to discovering the avenues that are available to you, and that you trust and can afford. I think as far as baseball goes it is important to understand that it is one of the most difficult sports to play, and many young boys quit before they realize their full potential because they failed to develop the fundamentals that are necessary for skill development. 2 things that you can provide your son right now are a basketball hoop, and a wall to throw against. Let him shoot hoops, and throw a ball against a wall. It was good enough for Michael Jordan, and Ozzie Smith. All he needs from there is love and encouragement. Good luck Dad, and remember to teach him the greatest fundamental of all…Hard Work…because it always pays off.

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I played frisbee with my dad/friends a lot. By about 7 or 8 years old, I can remember recess was a pile of boys on two teams seeing who could jump the highest to catch the frisbee the other group threw. That was one of the most involved activities I remember. It requires almost all levels of coordination. Throwing, running, jumping, fingertip catching. It can be done with as little as two, but as many as you want. I can even remember throwing a frisbee in the wind at the beach and it coming back to me.

Even when gently throwing it back and forth, eventually one will snag a bit and shoot a little left or right and the catcher’s reaction/response will sharpen. That’ll be used for all sports in the future. Eye on the frisbee to detect the direction as soon as it leaves the fingers, like baseball or soccer, football, etc, etc.

Super cheap too!

BG

I knew I’d get good advice here, thanks everyone, I will use a lot of your advise!!!

… The Cross of Christ is the anvil upon which the hammer of evil wore itself out.